New beginnings

This year is the first in so many ways.  It is the first year in which I truly feel that I am fulfilling my mission in life.  It is the first of so many important opportunities to fully have looked into myself and discovered who I really am and what I am meant to do in the bigger picture of life.  And it is, most importantly, the first time in a very long time that what I do as my job is what I have always wanted to do: to help women learn to feel good about themselves and to empower them to create the lives that they truly want to have, especially to create the love life that they ideally want. I have been doing this for years already, but now I am doing this for a living and able to focus on it entirely and completely – which means that I can do it better.206bef42-953d-4f22-a695-432d94ea1e49

For the first time ever, I can spend as much time as I want really helping women to find that inner love and personal confidence in themselves and then to teach them how to go out there and take control of their lives to make their love life happen as they want it to, not waiting for someone else to do it for them.

Not too long ago I ended some very important relationships in my life because I did not feel that they were right for me long term.  Several years before that, I ended, with the paperwork to demonstrate its finality, my relationship with my husband (and the father of my children) of more than eight years.  I did not stop to worr

y at any point in any of these finalities of whether I would ever meet someone truly suited to me who I’d want to spend the rest of my life with. I just knew that I eventually would, if I wanted to. I never worried when leaving my husband – who was the main financial provider of our family – whether I would be able to survive without the ample financial means that marriage and life together with him provided. I just assumed that I would be fine. Now, many years after I took that brave move that set my life initially into darkness, I know that I will be much more than just fine. And I can honestly say that I have been more than fine after the end of each relationship that finished after that.

Not only that I was more than fine, but every ending brought about what was necessary for an even better beginning. Everything that didn’t work brought a further learning, both of myself, and of relationships in general. So that every time after the end of each relationship, I took the time to really meditate and consider my part in all that happened and what I learned from it, thereby further perfecting my knowledge and myself. Every new beginning to every new relationship created something that was better than what I had left behind.

This is not of course to say that we should always leave something in the hopes of finding something better. In fact, much of my coaching is done with women who are in relationships already and who I help to value what they have so that they can truly appreciate how lucky they are to have it and then to even improve on it to such a degree that the relationship that they help to create, with just the right amount of coaching to empower them to create it, is a relationship so vastly improved from what they had when they first came to see me. So no I am not a supporter of walking away always in search of the better thing around the corner. But I do advocate walking away from something that isn’t working if it really doesn’t feel like it ever will be that which you seek. This is courage in and of itself; and it is a courage that comes from valuing who you are and what you stand for, and from knowing that you are amazing enough to have many other, better options than being stuck in something that isn’t working. This is what I do in my practice: I empower women with this kind of self-belief so that they never feel stuck again.

Want to learn how to become that ideal woman who has the power to attract the right kind of man? Join me for one of my upcoming workshops or work with me One to One for an even deeper transformation.

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